Here’s the thing about neurodivergence and marriage

If part of you is excited about marriage and part of you is uneasy, good. That’s not a red flag. That’s awareness.
Partnership is not a checklist. And “forever” is not a personality trait.

It’s two nervous systems learning how to co-regulate without disappearing.

It’s learning how to fight without annihilating each other
when emotions run hot, tempers flare fast,
or one of you shuts down while the other escalates.

It’s deciding who does the dishes when you’re both burned out
and when unfinished tasks, time blindness, or uneven labor quietly turn one partner into the “manager” or the “parent.”

It’s navigating sex, money, ambition, grief, family, mental health, power, and change
while also navigating distraction, overwhelm, medication effects, mismatched energy, emotional reactivity, and the slow erosion of intimacy that can come from feeling criticized, unseen, or chronically disappointing.

It’s doing all of this across different seasons,
with different versions of yourselves.


While this is technically a PREmarital counseling course and completion qualifies couples for discounted marriage licenses in Texas, it absolutely can be a fitting interactive, psychoeducational resource for any couple at any stage of a significant partnership.

Where can I find premarital counseling for neurodivergent couples in Texas?

Right here!

Weekend Intensive (8 hours total)

  • Completed in one full weekend (4 hours/day)

  • Primarily small-group with private couple option available

  • Best for couples who prefer immersive learning with fewer transitions

Weekly Series (4 weeks)

  • One session per week (2 hours each)

  • Small-group or private couple option available

  • Great for couples who need time to process and reflect between sessions

You'll be able to select your preferred format when you register for the group. Registration typically begins 4 weeks before the first meeting date, but you can join the waitlist below. Private couple offerings (no group required) are available by request.

Join the wait list.

Please complete the form below to join the waitlist. You’ll receive scheduling options and early access openings before spots are released publicly.

Next group course begins early Spring 2026.

You’re not “too much.”

Open conversations early on won’t eliminate misunderstandings for neurodivergent couples. What they do build is something more sustainable: compassion for differences in processing and regulation, clear shared responsibility, and the relief of knowing you’re facing challenges together—not alone or blamed.

Why do we need a premarital course?

Many autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD people grow up in environments that ask them to constantly adjust—be quieter, sit still, mask more, struggle less. The impact often shows up in adulthood, but it’s workable.

Common patterns that come from those experiences:

  • Doubting your ability to maintain relationships

  • Slipping into people-pleasing or over-accommodating

  • Feeling unsafe being fully yourself

  • Missing a sense of agency in partnership

  • Sensory needs shaping home life and connection

  • Burnout risk and rejection sensitivity

  • Differences in communication processing

  • Challenges with finances, routines, and shared labor

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Okay, but why THIS premarital course?

Dominant Western marriage narratives—fixed roles, indirect communication, “push through it” expectations—often fail ND couples, not because something is wrong with the relationship, but because the model simply doesn’t fit. We also don’t shy away from folks other premarital courses often ignore: queer couples, polyamorous/nonmonogamous couples, nontraditional family structures, couples with chronic Illness/disability, couples in the kink/fetish community, etc.

What actually strengthens ND partnerships:

  • Co-created systems instead of assumed roles

  • Clear, direct communication

  • Emotional safety and predictable repair

  • Shared values and collaborative decision-making

  • Rituals that support connection, not conformity

Common strengths ND couples bring:

  • Honest, straightforward conflict logic

  • Creative problem-solving

  • Emotional depth and loyalty

  • Steady curiosity and reflective thinking

  • Meaningful dialogue rooted in authenticity

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What is the cost of this course?

  • Small group: $650/couple

    Just you and your partner: $2850

  • In-person and virtual options available.

    Small group: $575/couple

    Just you and your partner: $1850

  • Our Neurodivergent Premarital Weekend Retreat is an immersive, Friday–Sunday experience held at a quiet, nature-forward retreat space in Texas. Designed specifically for ADHD, autistic, and AuDHD couples, this weekend blends relationship skill-building with rest, sensory-aware pacing, and honest, unmasked connection. Contact me for more information.

Financial Hardship & Reduced Fee Requests
I offer a limited number of community reduced-fee spots for clients experiencing financial hardship. If cost is a barrier, you’re welcome to request consideration for a reduced fee by reaching out directly. Requests are reviewed thoughtfully and in accordance with my community reduced fee policy, with the goal of balancing accessibility and sustainability. Availability is limited, and reduced fees are reassessed periodically.

*As a Twogether-in-Texas approved provider, I can provide you a certificate for your work in our course that affords you $60 off the cost of your marriage license!